Recently I had a conversation with a women In reference to the Biblical role of a man.
I was shocked that In this day and time so many women say the samething "I think a man should be a provider,leader,protector etc..."
In my opinion and take it as such if you believe in the traditional role of a man which was based on the traditional role of a family then your setting yourself up for a plethora of
Old antiquated ideologies.
First lets take the traditional role of man in Biblical times man was better educated,mainly because women had been so suppressed they were not allowed to even have a opinion, job,self confidence etc...
There were no rule governing there rights so men were in total control.
To me that sounds more like slavery than the way one should treat the one they love what happen to treat people the way you want to be treated. Now don't get me wrong I do believe that a man is more suited for labour just do to the genetic make up of the body he definitely is build for work, and because we can't have children I don't believe that it makes since to believe that women were sat up to work hand and hand with men but In today's world support isn't solely who works the most physical. Women are no longer are less educated they are not stuck at home or (well in most cases) scared to speak there minds.
Therefore able to adequately compete with men financially .
I truely believe if a women wants to stay home have children and have her husband provide for the famiily that's her right and his responsiblility but I also think that if a woman wants to get out there work hard beside her man she should and society should not frown on him or her,that's there choice I believe every family should have a leader,but it should not be based on who makes the most money. Just as chores should not be based on who wear the pants.
It amazes me that the same woman that believe the traditional role of a man don't believe the traditional role of a woman to tell them to be quiet stay home raise kids would start a world war.
You can't have it both ways please people set your home up with what works if being home makes you happy live on be happy if working side by side makes you happy do that if something in between makes you happy do that but please don't beat your man up if you make more money than he if he's doing his best help him, and if his role is leader than money should not change that peace.
